Monday, February 22, 2010

A New England Winter

I'm determined to sell someone else besides me on Henry James before I die. It's not that he doesn't already have his fans (though probably not in the same number as Dickens or Austen) or that I'm the first person to ever hear of him. And I'll admit it's quite easy to make fun of his long-winded ways and his serious side profiles (he always is so stern in any picture I've ever seen of him.) But if you can wade through some of his runaway train sentences (which actually are quite lovely at times) you'll can find surprisingly 'modern' stuff like this:



“Oh no, that is not necessary,” Miss Daintry rejoined, with more exactness. “There are one or two, however, who always appreciate a pretty speech.” She added in an instant: “Do you remember Mrs Mesh?”
“Mrs Mesh?”   Florimond apparently did not remember.

“The wife of Donald Mesh; your grandfathers were first cousins. I don’t mean her grandfather, but her husband’s. If you don’t remember her, I suppose he married her after you went away.”

“I remember Donald; but I never knew he was a relation. He was single then, I think.”

“Well, he’s double now,” said Miss Daintry; “he’s triple, I may say, for there are two ladies in the house.”

“If you mean he’s a polygamist – are there Mormons even here?” Florimond, leaning back in his chair, with his elbow on the arm, and twisting with his gloved fingers the point of a small fair moustache, did not appear to have been arrested by this account of Mr Mesh’s household; for he almost immediately asked, in a large, detached way – “Are there any nice women here?”

“It depends on what you mean by nice women; there are some very sharp ones.”

“Oh, I don’t like sharp ones,” Florimond remarked, in a tone which made his aunt long to throw her sofa-cushion at his head. “Are there any pretty ones?”

She looked at him a moment, hesitating. “Rachel Torrance is pretty, in a strange, unusual way – black hair and blue eyes, a serpentine figure, old coins in her tresses; that sort of thing.”

“I have seen a good deal of that sort of thing,” said Florimond, abstractedly.

I especially like the part about throwing the sofa-cushion...who knew people in polite society had such thoughts back then? And apparently it was just as hard for single men and women as it is now:)

I remember when I first read James back in college...Washington Square was the first work of his I ever read and it touched me profoundly...and through all his (sometimes) dry way of putting things, I saw that he could see right through the veneer of proper society and heavy clothing to the heart that beats in anyone who has ever been manipulated or spurned in the name of love...or lack of it.
Buildings & Mountains (Album Version)
"Buildings & Mountains" by The Republic Tigers is one of the most amazing songs I've ever heard...check out the video:


http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&videoid=33300019

I couldn't find their video through You Tube, but this IS a safe link! I love the very end of the video...mystical and in keeping with the spirit of the song...not a flashy video at all, but that's the point!:)
I had a very disturbing dream the other night...about a reality tv show where every woman on it had an eating disorder and the show was romanticizing eating disorders and people who were genuinely suffering from them...most bizarre, sad dream I've had in a while...the truly weird thing is no one told these girls they were being filmed...and the girls weren't being "pro ana"...but the producers were definitely being exploitative...one of the worst dreams I've had in ages.

The scary thing is I wouldn't be surprised if someday reality tv reaches lows that we haven't even begun to imagine...
Sex Therapy: The Experience

While "Sex Therapy" is more than halfway decent and Robin Thicke can give Justin Timberlake a good run for his money, there's a lot to be said for a little less telling and a lot more showing. Thicke's voice is as smooth and buttery as icing on a delicious cake, but his over-emphasis on phallic imagery and frequent use of "daddy" is enough to give me an Oedius Rex complex...honey, Robin, please...remember less is more when it comes to describing sex. The sensuality in the music and his voice is pitch perfect, but the lyrics...well, they are, at times (on songs such as "Shakin' It 4 Daddy") just a tad cringe-worthy!

Still, this is a rather appealing album with some nice soul grooves, some strong dance beats and a slew of great guest appearances by artists such as Snoop Dog, Estelle and Kid Cudi. Given the album's title, I don't really think it's necessary for me to say "consider yourself warned!" But I will anyway...because the former Catholic school girl in me is feeling SO guilty for listening to this!:)

Sunday, February 21, 2010

 
Sometimes I feel like one of those really out-of-touch people with an  insane need for nostalgia and its warped way of making you think everything was wonderful back in the day...but sometimes I also feel like I would bring those "real" days back in a flash...

I'm listening to Snow Patrol's "Cartwheels" (it's absolutely gorgeous and deceptively easy-going  like most of their songs are!)

Up to Now 
and being lulled into this sense of "other" worldliness, something that often comes over me when I'm lost in a really really good song. And I can't believe there was a time when I was free enough with my body to not only want to do cartwheels, but to be able to actually do them...

Childhood is truly a remarkable time in our lives and no matter what kind we have it seems to me that most of us have this incredible talent for making ourselves totally believe anything...Maybe what we need as adults is a (occasionally, of course) strong dose of make believe...because keeping your eyes open all the time kind of hurts...