I try to stick to music, books and movies, but (as I have before) am taking a detour....saw this article and while no one (on other side of the issue) will be breaking out champagne and wine glasses to celebrate, it's a bit more unexpected and open-minded than I would have imagined the Mormon Church to be. They are by no means advocating that acting on same sex attraction is acceptable to their Church, but at least (in my mind, it seems) anyone who is gay and Mormon and already vulnerable to self-hating thought may be a bit relieved that their thoughts alone aren't necessarily going to land them in Hell.

It's one thing to tell someone gay that their actions are "sinful," but another to tell them their thoughts and feelings (things they can't help as much as they can their actions) is heartbreaking when they are already facing a (more times than not) homophobic society, especially in their church or small town where anti-gay sentiment is usually stronger.

I do think "attraction" is not the best word choice. "Attraction" implies physical feelings or sex, when being gay is about so much more. The romantic and emotional aspects (caring for someone else of the same gender, enjoying their company and talking with them) are so complex and complicated. I think it makes it easier for people who hate gay people to think it's tied in to nothing more than simple sex acts...which is far from the truth as anything can be....

...in an 80s kind of mood...

I found this cool website the other day, which includes an extensive list of 80s music compilations on cd...last night I downloaded "Sidewalk Talk" by Jellybean, an oft neglected (when it comes to being featured on 80s collections) dance song featuring Madonna.




It's funny...I didn't much care for the 80s when I was actually living through them, but now I occasionally find days or nights when I want to play my old records or listen to Internet radio stations where I'll hear songs I've long forgotten about...

 

This past Saturday I went to NYC with my niece and her best friend and we had a blast!! The time passed way too quickly and, already, I want to go back. We focused on 5th Avenue and Times Square (where we have a very scary incident with a possibly coked-up Cookie Monster), but there is so much more to cover.

Next time I'm hoping to spend more than a day...and I'll be using the above books; they are just great for trying to figure out where to eat (Morton's is definitely out of my price range!), shop (Tiffany's is strictly window only for me) or even stay overnight or for a few days (I once stayed at this wonderful hotel called The Doral Inn, way back in 1996 when I could afford it.)

Haven't we seen this before?

I absolutely love Chuck, but I feel like I have already seen the current storyline done in the exact same fashion on another beloved spy show you may have heard of called Alias. During season two of Alias, the writers brought in Lena Olin to play Sydney's ambiguously shady mom who was a double agent. Now in its fourth season, Chuck is doing the same thing with the title character's mom, played by Linda Hamilton.

Both shows feature Olin and Hamilton playing mothers who may or may not  be fighting on the good side and who may or may not love their children. The ping-ponging back and forth (the "is she or isn't she?" motif) is eerily similar and frankly sort of starting to get on my nerves as far Chuck goes.

Hamilton, whose acting I've always enjoyed and who set the bar for female action heroes in the awesome Terminator 2, is doing a phenomenal job (a scene with her character's daughter Ellie in last night's episode was especially moving) but I felt almost exhausted when the most recent episode closed.

In an otherwise stellar episode (with a hysterically funny performance by Timothy Dalton) Mama Bartowski had gone back and forth so many times I got dizzy. Just finish up this part of the storyline, please!:)

 
"Don't Worry Be Happy" is what I like to listen to when things seem low. I used to hate this song, but now I find so much peace in it!!:)

For anyone who is concerned with gay rights issues at the most basic level, forgetting gay marriage for the moment and just hoping (at this point in time, at least) for things that aren't anti-gay, there's an interesting article off of the Advocate website.

I thought several times last night and this morning about removing  yesterday's post because I usually like to stay light-hearted and on topic with music, books and film, but I didn't remove it...this is just too close to my heart right now....I can't apologize for what I feel, only for if I offend anyone who feels differently...because you are just as entitled to your opinion as I am to mine.

Sincerely,
just a girl blogging