This article from the "Guardian" has one section that really speaks to the experience of being "ghosted":
Leaver agrees that it is important to “operate with empathy to both
ghosters and ghostees”, but she says that, regardless of their
motivation, people who ghost need to realise that their actions “can be
extremely hurtful and painful. I do stand by [using the words] ‘cruel’
and ‘cowardly’, but that’s not said without empathy or compassion,” She
adds. “I think it’s important for us to understand why it’s happening,
in order to encourage it to stop.”
The rest of the article is here:
I think what hurts most about being ghosted is that you will never find out what you did wrong or how you can improve on what you did do wrong...or, worse, never know what happened to someone you really cared about...
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